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Monday, March 2, 2020

Managing Your Anger – Part 1

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Has anger ever gotten the best of you? The answer is likely, yes for most, if not all of us.

Anger is one of the most dangerous and destructive emotions we can experience. It produces bad actions, poor decisions, hurtful words, and broken relationships. The effects of a brief moment of anger can impact us for a lifetime.

How do we handle anger so that it doesn’t get the best of us? We need to see it coming! The best time to conquer anger is before it’s expressed!

Many times we’re blind-sided by anger. It sneaks up on us, unnoticed, and unacknowledged, and hijacks our emotions. Before we recognize what’s happening we’re heading down a pathway that causes problems and pain for us and others. We’ll never conquer anger until we are better able to detect its potential presence. We need to become proficient in sniffing out the presence of anger when it is sparked in our soul before it turns into a raging, destructive force.

The Bible warns us about the presence of anger. Look at what James, the apostle, said about it in James 1:19, 20 (NLT) “Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires.”

Conquering anger happens best before it ignites and explodes. Becoming more aware of the signs that anger is creeping into your soul is something worth developing. What do the early signs of anger look like in your life?

Pastor Dale

Friday, February 28, 2020

Born Again?

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Perhaps you’ve heard the phrase before. Unfortunately, it’s a term that is sometimes misunderstood, but it is in the Bible.

Here’s the setting. A very nice, religious, respected and moral man named Nicodemus came to Jesus one night for a conversation with Him. Take a look at the story in John 3:1-3 (NIV) “Now there was a Pharisee, a man named Nicodemus who was a member of the Jewish ruling council. He came to Jesus at night and said, ‘Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher who has come from God. For no one could perform the signs you are doing if God were not with him.’ Jesus replied, ‘Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again.’”

While Nicodemus didn’t initially understand what Jesus was talking about. He later grasped that Jesus was speaking of a moment when a person puts their faith in Jesus Christ, and God responds by sending His Holy Spirit into the heart to give spiritual life. It’s the moment when, by faith in Jesus, we’re born again!

Being “born again” is something we all need. Why? Because our sinfulness creates a condition of spiritual death in us. The Bible says that in our natural condition we are “dead in our transgressions and sins.” We need to be “born again” into spiritual life.

How does this happen? In the conversation with Nicodemus, Jesus told us. Jesus answer may be familiar to you. It’s found in John 3:16 (NIV) “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

Have you been “born again?” If not, put your faith in Jesus Christ today!

Pastor Dale

Thursday, February 27, 2020

Comforting Others

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You are called to ministry. God wants to use you to help people in pain and need. There’s no greater pain than the hurt people feel in times of loss.

How do you help someone who is broken-hearted? How do you provide meaningful support to someone who is going through grief?

The psalmist gives us insight into how to help others in times like these. Take a look at Psalm 23:4 (NIV) “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.” While this verse refers to the Lord as our Shepherd, it also teaches us something about helping others through their darkest moments.

Often the best support you can be to someone in their grief is by simply being with them. Your comforting presence can give them the reassurance and hope they need to make it through their trying time of loss. They don’t need a sermon from you, they need the quiet strength of your presence.

Sometimes the greatest ministry you’ll ever have is simply a loving, listening ministry. This kind of care makes far more of a difference than you can imagine!

Pastor Dale

Wednesday, February 26, 2020

Who Are You Becoming?

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The most important questions in life are not “Who are you?” or “What do you do?” The greatest question you’ll answer about yourself is “Who are you becoming?”

No one can change their past. The only things we can change in life are our present and future. We do this by choosing to become better, stronger, holier and healthier. We improve our lives by making wise choices about who we’re becoming.

The apostle James wrote about this process of becoming in James 1:2-4 (TLB) “Dear brothers, is your life full of difficulties and temptations? Then be happy, for when the way is rough, your patience has a chance to grow. So let it grow, and don’t try to squirm out of your problems. For when your patience is finally in full bloom, then you’ll be ready for anything, strong in character, full and complete.”

As you go through the various trials and temptations in life, you have an opportunity to develop—to grow—to continually become better, stronger, holier and healthier. Your day-to-day challenges are designed by God to help you become the person He created you to be. The problems that show up in your life can actually be the fertilizer that causes your life to bloom and produce incredible fruit.

The key is choice—we must choose to let our difficulties develop us. Instead of fighting them, resenting them or running from them, we can rejoice in them and let them make us better.
Stop worrying about your past. Focus on who you’re becoming today. Remember that who you’re becoming is far more important than who you’ve been!

Pastor Dale

Tuesday, February 25, 2020

Successful Relationships

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Great things are produced by great processes. The best way to improve a product is by improving the process that creates it.

This is true in relationships. Relationships are the product of processes. Good ones are formed and developed by intentionally adding the right ingredients.

What is the most important ingredient in a successful relationship? Simply stated, great relationships begin with bringing God into the relationship. Whatever God is a part of, He strengthens. It’s true of a marriage, a friendship, and a business partnership. When God is invited into the relationship, and honored in the relationship, there’s a better opportunity for harmony, cooperation, peace and, productivity. The improved product comes from the right process!

Jesus gave us this basic principle in Matthew 6:33 (NIV) “Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

When and where God is first, and His Kingdom is first, His blessings flow!

Do you want a stronger marriage, better friendships and more productive partnerships with others? Begin putting God first in your relationships. Actively invite Him to be a part. Jointly live by His commands and principles. You’ll discover that when you do, you’ll experience His blessings, and your relationships will be better!

Pastor Dale

Monday, February 24, 2020

Handling Grief

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Loss is tough. Any major loss creates a strong emotion called grief. Grief is real, and it’s normal. It’s part of the process of dealing with, and eventually healing from the losses in your life.

The Bible refers to grief in several places and in several ways. It’s described as being “cast down, broken-hearted and crushed in spirit.” God’s Word gives us hope to hold on to in times of grief. Look at the following verse in Psalm 34:18 (NIV) “The Lord is close to the broken-hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

What a promise! In our moments of loss, we have a God who doesn’t desert us. He comes close to heal and deliver us. He shows up to help us overcome the pain of our losses.

It’s helpful to understand how to handle grief and heal from it. How does this happen? It starts by honestly expressing our grief to God. Don’t deny your grief, express it to God. He’ll listen and draw near to you.

God comes near to us in our grief through the comforting presence of His Holy Spirit. In our pain, we sense Him gently wrapping His arms around us, assuring us of His love. He also comes to us in our grief through the comforting presence of supportive family and friends. He brings people into your life that can help you walk through the dark valley of grief into light and hope again.

When the waves of sorrow break on your soul, call on the One who can comfort you and turn to the people He has placed around you. He’s the Healer of the broken-hearted!

Pastor Dale

Tuesday, February 18, 2020

The Hole In Your Soul

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Many people spend their entire life either searching for the one personal relationship that will cure the pain in their soul, or in trying to make someone in their life give them the love, attention, affirmation, and approval they long for.

What we fail to understand is this. The deepest need in our life isn’t a need for relationships with people. It is our aching need for a relationship with God, our Creator.

There is a lady in the Bible who learned this lesson from Jesus. John 4 tells the story of the Samaritan woman and her interaction with Jesus Christ at a well. She went to the well to fetch water and met Jesus there. He told her about living water—a spiritual water that would satisfy the deepest longing in her soul.

This lady had spent her adult life looking for love and soul satisfaction in the wrong places. She had been married 5 times and was living with a man who wasn’t her husband. Her relationship history points to lots of failure and pain.

When she met Jesus, she found satisfaction that none of her human relationships could ever give her. She discovered that there was a hole in her soul that only God could fill.

The same is true for you. There’s a hole in your soul that only God can fill. Open your life to the living water only Jesus can give. You’ll find the satisfaction that no person or thing can provide.

Pastor Dale

Monday, February 17, 2020

What To Do When You Don’t Know What To Do

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Many times we find ourselves facing a decision that baffles us. We don’t know what to do. After weighing pros and cons and talking to others, we’re more confused. Our direction seems cloudy, foggy, extremely unclear. We don’t know what to do.

What do you do when you don’t know what to do? The Bible tells us in James 1:5 (NIV) “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.”

In this verse, we’re given instructions and a promise. When we don’t know what to do, we are reminded that God is available to help us, guide us, speak to us and direct us. To access the wisdom of God we must go to Him. He must ask Him for it. When we ask, we need to believe and trust that He will answer us. We ask, we trust, we wait and we watch. We can be sure that the answer will come.

Are you trying to make an important decision, and you don’t know what to do? Have you exhausted yourself trying to find the answer? Ask God. Trust God. Wait on God. And watch for the answer. It’s on the way!

Pastor Dale

Friday, February 14, 2020

Name and Fame

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In pop culture, fame is largely about name recognition. People pursuing celebrity status often expend huge amounts of time and money getting their name out—branding their identity. Why? Name and fame go together. People work hard to make a name for themselves.

One name needs no self-promotion—God’s name! God’s name is great, not because of His self-centered, self-branding efforts. His name is great because He is great. No one or nothing compares to Him. He is set apart from all things and all others.

Take a look at this reminder found in Jeremiah 10:6 (NIV) “No one is like you, LORD; you are great, and your name is mighty in power.”

One of our primary assignments as believers is to proclaim the greatness of God’s name in all the world. Through our words and through our works, we are called to make His glorious name known. Instead of living for the fame of our name, we’re to live for the fame of His name—the matchless name of Jesus!

Remember who He is! Paul reminded us of His great name in Philippians 2:9-11 (NIV) “… God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.”

Pastor Dale

Thursday, February 13, 2020

So Good!

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It’s a popular expression. It describes events and experiences surpassing our most positive expectations. That was “so good” we say!

Goodness also describes the actions and nature of people. When someone shows unexpected or undeserved kindness to us, we call them “good.” When someone displays generosity to us, we think of them as “good.” When someone goes out of their way to help us, we appreciate the “goodness” they demonstrate.

The Bible shows us a God who is good. James, the New Testament writer, says it this way in James 1:17 (NIV) “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father …”

The psalm writer echoed this assessment of God’s character and nature in Psalm 34:8 (NIVP) “Taste and see that the Lord is good …”

Why is it important to remember God’s goodness? Because it transforms the way you relate to Him. It changes the way you pray. You approach God with greater confidence. Admitting sins to God no longer is a frightful thing, it’s a helpful thing. You’re confessing your failures to a loving God. It increases your peace. You know you’re secure with a God who is good! Praise becomes more natural and consistent when you trust the God who is good!

God is good! He is so good!

Pastor Dale

Wednesday, February 12, 2020

See the Light

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About seven decades ago, a singer named Hank Willams, Sr. introduced a song which has been re-recorded and sung by many over the years. In 1948, “I Saw The Light” was released by Williams. The song lyrics describe a moment of spiritual insight and transformation. Here are a few of the words:

“I’ve wandered so aimless, life filled with sin
I wouldn’t let my dear Savior in
Then Jesus came like a stranger in the night
Praise the Lord, I saw the light.
I saw the light, I saw the light
No more darkness, no more night
Now I’m so happy, no sorrow in sight
Praise the Lord, I saw the light.
Just like a blind man I wandered alone
Worries and fear I claimed for my own
Then like a blind man who God gave back his sight
Praise the Lord, I saw the light.”

Throughout the pages of the Bible, God is described as light. Light is, obviously, the opposite of darkness. Light is not only what God gives to people; it is who He is!

Because God is light, when we spend time with Him, He sheds light on us. He helps us to see things that we otherwise couldn’t see. He reveals things to us about life, ourselves, and His plans. When you’re with Him, you’re able to “see the light!”

Pastor Dale

Tuesday, February 11, 2020

Weight Check

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Visit a doctor, and most likely, you’ll be required to step on one of those dreaded “doctor scales.” I am convinced the medical profession has conspired to produce these deceptive devices. There’s no way I weigh as much as these contraptions say I weigh!

What is weight? It’s your body mass. Technically, it’s the “gravitational force of attraction on an object …” (Encyclopedia Britannica) The more mass, the higher the weight. You likely didn’t need to be reminded of this!

When it comes to the Bible, the word “weight” is defined a bit differently. It’s associated with the concept of glory. The glory of something is how heavy or weighty something is. It represents how much power or influence something or someone possesses; how much capacity and ability a person has in their nature and character. This is why the word is used scripturally in connection with God. God is described as glorious—weighty!

Isaiah, the prophet, experienced the weight of the glory of God. Look at his encounter with God’s glory in Isaiah 6:1-3 (NIV) “In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord, high and exalted, seated on a throne; and the train of his robe filled the temple. Above him were seraphim…And they were calling to one another: ‘Holy, holy, holy is the Lord Almighty; the whole earth is full of his glory.’”

When Isaiah saw God’s glory, it transformed him forever. He was impacted by the weight of who God was and is. He realized that nothing or no one compared with the weightiness of God. Nothing was beyond His power and ability to do. He was Supreme, Superior, Set Apart from anyone and anything else.

Today, open your eyes to the weightiness of God. When He “weighs in” to your life and situation, things always change for the better!

Pastor Dale

Monday, February 10, 2020

The Difference a Day Makes

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A single day can change life as we know it. We all can look back on key days when something significant occurred. Life changed.

It was true for the Old Testament prophet Isaiah. He described what happened to him one day, and the year it happened in Isaiah 6:1 (NIV) “In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord …”

King Uzziah was one of the relatively good kings of Judah. He did lots of positive things for this tiny nation. The day he died was a sad day for the country. Although it was also a sad day for Isaiah, it turned out to be one of the best days of his life. Why? Because Isaiah’s focus shifted from thinking about, and likely serving an earthly king to serving a Heavenly King. In one day, in one encounter with God, everything changed in Isaiah’s life. When his vision turned from earth to heaven, he found new meaning and a new calling for his life.

The best way to change life for the better is to change your life focus. In one day, and with one decision—the decision to look from earth to heaven—your life can and will shift trajectories. This day will become one of the best days of your life!

Pastor Dale

Friday, February 7, 2020

Permanent Celebrity Status

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Our world is preoccupied with celebrities. Pop culture elevates folks who have high profile achievements, significant wealth or envied popularity or status. People exalt them, celebrate them, and sadly make them their idols and life models.

People can appropriately be celebrated and appreciated for their accomplishments. Yet the reality is, there’s always someone on the heels of the rich and famous who will eventually push them out of culture’s spotlight, taking their place for the next season.

There is only One who never loses fame. There is only One who never loses honor. There is One, and only One who is eternally worthy of glory, praise, and worship. There is only One who has permanent celebrity status. The psalmist said it this way in Psalms 97:9 (NIV) “For you, Lord, are the Most High over all the earth; you are exalted far above all gods.” John, the apostle, described his vision of the worship in heaven with these words in Revelation 4:9-11(NIV) “Whenever the living creatures give glory, honor and thanks to him who sits on the throne and who lives for ever and ever, the twenty-four elders fall down before him who sits on the throne and worship him who lives for ever and ever. They lay their crowns before the throne and say: ‘You are worthy, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for you created all things, and by your will they were created and have their being.’”

Take time today to worship the only One who is worthy of your worship!

Pastor Dale

Thursday, February 6, 2020

Tune In

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How do you find your favorite radio station? You tune in.

In past years, you tuned in to your desired station by carefully turning your radio dial. Often it was a tedious process. Getting the dial to precisely the right frequency was essential to receiving the clearest signal and best listening experience. If your dial was slightly off, you had to deal with lots of static and bleed-over from other stations. Thankfully, digital tuning has solved these issues!

Hearing God is more like analog tuning than digital. It requires some effort and careful attention. We have to “dial-in” to the Holy Spirit’s voice.

A young boy in the Bible learned this lesson. His name was Samuel. You can read about his experience learning to listen to God in 1 Samuel 3:1-10. God sought Samuel’s attention, but Samuel had to learn to listen for God’s voice.

God is always seeking our attention. He wants to talk to you. I don’t mean this in strange or weird ways. His voice is heard through His Word, and through reminders of His Word throughout the day. This means that we must get His Word inside us, so, in key life moments, the Holy Spirit can whisper God’s promises and instructions back to us.

Are you getting God’s Word in you? Are you listening for the voice of the Holy Spirit reminding you of God’s Word throughout the day? Let’s all learn to tune in to the frequency of heaven!

Pastor Dale

Wednesday, February 5, 2020

Windshield or Rearview Mirror?

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It’s often been said that people live their lives looking in one of two possible directions: some live life facing forward — looking through the big windshield of the present and future. Others are living life backward. They are driving their lives with their eyes focused on the rearview mirror — the past.

Living in the past will always keep you from your best life and future. Think of the consequences of trying to drive forward with your eyes focused backward. It’s an accident waiting to happen!

There’s a lady in the Bible who paid a high price for a backward focused vision. She’s known as “Lot’s wife.” When God told Lot and his family to leave Sodom and Gomorrah because of the coming judgment against these cities, He specifically told them to head out of town and never to look back. God was reminding them to leave behind the past and move toward their future.

Sadly, Lot’s wife disobeyed these instructions. We’re told what happened as a result in Genesis 19:26 (NIV) “But Lot’s wife looked back, and she became a pillar of salt.” Many years later, Jesus used this event to remind us of the importance of forward vision. Look at three simple words spoken by our Savior in Luke 17:32 (NIV) “Remember Lot’s wife!” Looking back hinders us. People pay a high price for living a life focused on the past!

What about you? Does your focus need to change? Are you preoccupied with the pain of your past, the mistakes of your past, or perhaps the glory of your past? Shift your focus forward to the present and future. You’ll discover God there!

Pastor Dale